"...I thought it was the weirdest thing a guy could ever want from a Woman!...But I gotta tell ya...agreeing to lock his dick away inside a chastity cage has been the best move I've ever made!...Not only do I have the most devoted, well behaved guy I've ever dated...but he spends all his money on Me...I get to fuck whoever I want...even a few of his friends!...My apartment has never been cleaner...and you should see how he busts his balls trying to keep Me happy...just so I'll let him get a little from Me now and then!...And hell...he's not a bad lay....it's just that I like getting My way all the time!"
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Love a lot of the images you post but I'm sorry to say I'm not going to be able to visit your blog anymore. I just feel to bad for you. It makes me sad and a bit angry.
I'm happy you have found a lifestyle you enjoy but watching someone use another's insecurities to the point Q has with you is too much for me. If a man did this to a woman he would be called an abuser.
Yes, I get you enjoy the lifestyle but you never seem to emerge from the play. far too unbalanced to last, in my opinion. And when it does unravel, Q will have a nice life because she is out having it now and you will be left with your insecurities and wondering why, despite all your effort, it wasn't enough. Sure, it may not happen but the internet is full of real stories where the husband was left for his wife's bull when she feel in love or grew tired of the game.
Maybe you should take a break sometimes to make sure what you think is lying beneath the games is really there?
Anyway, no need to respond. I won't be back to see it. It's not an attack either, it's a concern. Like the wife that gets beat and thinks she somehow deserves it, you seem to be in the same situation so it raises concern. Good luck to you both.
i'm truly sad to lose a visitor to our site Anon...but i'm not about to defend our lifestyle, or explain to you that any insecurities i may have are shared and talked about within the privacy of our home...the same goes with Her's...We are approaching the second decade of sharing our lives together...eleven years of marriage last month...nine of those raising a son...and we just passed the three year mark of engaging in a Female Led Relationship...before our son was born...we were semi active in swinging from time to time...though it was mostly watching, and being watched...We have seen marriages dissolve among our mutual friends and family...and have witnessed the effect of divorce on the lives of the children...And these folks are supposedly normal...with insecurities just like anyone who is awake and breathing air on this planet...So in our hearts...we believe we're weathering the storms and finding joy in all the little things...and it seems we're doing a pretty damn good job staying sane in a crazy world...and this we do by holding on to each other! Like i said...i'm sorry to lose a reader...but it's so unnecessary for you to leave...just stick around and have a fantasy or two on me...because the majority of the posts on this site simply pay homage to the many different faces of Domination and submission between men and Women...hell...lighten up and have a little fun!
I love your "they Talk" photos and captions.
As i mentioned before. Ive often enjoyed overhearing women at restraunts/bars/elsewhere gleefuly brag to thier female friends about how obedient thier husbands/boyfriends are. And often its women that look meek and gentle
A few times ive seen women brag about how thier husband does all of the housework , and how she "Is the boss" while the husband stands nearby blushing.Once or twice on thse occiasions ive seen the women congratulate the husband on what a "good husband" he is. but on a few occasions ive seen the women just congratualte the wife on how how good a husband she has made him.All while the husband is ignored and treated as if he wasnt even there
I find this post (Anon) a little odd, not least because the love you have for each other seems pretty obvious. I don't always 'get' everything that goes on between you, like the spanking for example, but it still seems to me that you genuinely love each other and what appears (as much as I can tell) as a solid marriage.
If I've learned anything over the years it's that you can't judge someone else's relationship by your own standards and ideals.
The other thing I would say is that because Q posts on my blog I have picked up on some of the things she has said which colour my view of things, perhaps Anon hasn't seen those comments, perhaps they don't visit my blog (why not?????). Perhaps if Q posted her side on your blog more people would be more informed and understand a little better?
I think half the thing with alternative relationships is the breaking of barriers and allowing us to explore our deeper, darker fantasies with each other (or with others), that could be giving control of orgasms or letting someone piss on you... Mistress R commented this morning that when she responded to Miss Christina's questions the other day, she found her answers a bit underwhelming, she just can't find the words to explain how it feels to bring someone close to orgasm and to deny it, how unbelievably intense it is and how close it makes you feel. I imagine when you were spooning Q with your cock hard in your chastity device you would have been experiencing something few of us would dare to, and if it makes you and Q happy then, why the hell not. You only get one life and if you can find someone on your wavelength to share it with then you are a lucky, lucky person.
Sure your marriage could break up, so could anyone's, and if it does people will be like, well what did you expect he was a cuck, it was bound to happen. But that might not be the reason at all, there could be a million other reasons, but people will always focus on something they don't understand, instead of something else like one of you was useless with money or one of you was a miserable git or something like that...
Anyway, point is, the more I think about it the more I think this persons comment was mildly ridiculous. Keep doing your thing and fuck what anyone else thinks!
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